A Woman’s Place: Why Creating Comprehensive Estate Plans is Crucial for Women

A Woman’s Place: Why Creating Comprehensive Estate Plans is Crucial for Women

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Despite common misconceptions, I have found that women are the driving force in the conversations I have with families about estate plans. In our office, we often communicate primarily with the wife if our clients are married, or a daughter in the case of aging parents. While men actively participate in this work, it is consistently wives, mothers, and daughters who often handle their family’s legal affairs. According to a recent survey, women have an equal say in major financial decisions in seventy-five percent of households.  In homes where one partner is solely responsible for financial decisions, women outnumber men in that role by a four to three margin. This number is astonishing considering that women’s rights to vote, have a credit card, and own property are still relatively fresh…
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Fostering Family Harmony: Leave a Legacy of Love, not Feuding

Fostering Family Harmony: Leave a Legacy of Love, not Feuding

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As life moves forward and we accumulate wealth, assets, and cherished memories, it becomes increasingly crucial to consider how we want our estate to be passed on. Few things are as heart-wrenching as a dispute among family members, yet they are all too common when it comes time to distribute an estate. We expect family to be a place of love and relative harmony in our often-tumultuous world, and even the thought of that security falling apart may be unsettling. Countless estates are disputed each year, in and out of court. These disputes do not just occur in the families of the rich and famous, though those disputes are more publicized. What can you do to preserve the harmony in your family in passing on your legacy? Here are 5…
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Show Me the Money: Why Financial Literacy is an Estate Planning Issue

Show Me the Money: Why Financial Literacy is an Estate Planning Issue

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Clear communication around money is one of the biggest challenges couples face when they get married. Whether it is dealing with differences in spending priorities, budgeting practices, or relationship to money, it can be difficult getting on (and staying on) the same page. Money is one of the leading causes of divorce in America, with financial problems contributing to somewhere between 20% and 40% of all divorces. When it comes to estate planning, having open conversations and addressing concerns around your finances is critical to making sure your plan works how and when you need it to. The immediate issue for finances and estate planning is funding your trust. You must make sure all your assets are titled appropriately to ensure that your trust has authority over your estate. It…
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Avoid Family Feuds: The No Contest Clause

Avoid Family Feuds: The No Contest Clause

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One of the biggest concerns that clients share with me is that after they pass their children or other beneficiaries will get into nasty fights. Oftentimes, the fights arise from undealt with familial issues and play out with one child vying to get a larger share or take possession of a beloved family heirloom. This fear is all too real a threat as we have seen countless families torn apart by horrible arguments that go against what the parents stated in their plan. In all my years as an attorney, I have found that the best way to deal with these potential problems is to cut them off before they have a chance to become a real issue for the estate. The way to do this is by including a…
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Rowing Together in the Same Direction

Rowing Together in the Same Direction

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Like many, I am a football enthusiast, especially when it comes to my family’s favorite team, the Dallas Cowboys. For my family, football is not just a leisurely pastime for a Sunday afternoon, it is a key form of bonding and spending quality time together. My brother and I played football when we were in High School and I have since had the joy of cheering on both my sons, Michael and Caleb, as they played the game. I have learned a lot about life from my time playing and watching football. Two of the most important lessons I have learned from sports are the power of Teamwork and Coaching. To begin, I want to share some wisdom I have learned about Teamwork. When it comes to being successful as…
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